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Out in the Silence Description:
Following the story of a small American town confronting a firestorm of controversy ignited by a same-sex wedding announcement in the local newspaper, this gripping documentary illustrates the challenges of being an outsider in a conservative rural community and the change that is possible when courageous people break the silence and search for common ground. Out in the Silence will challenge you to rethink your values and help close the gaps that divide our communities.
- Amazon Sales Rank: #5357 in DVD
- Released on: 2010-03-09
- Rating: Unrated
- Aspect ratio: 1.33:1
- Formats: Color, DVD, NTSC
- Original language: English
- Number of discs: 1
- Running time: 56 minutes
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- Condition: NEW
- Notes: Brand New from Publisher. No Remainder Mark.
Customer Reviews:
A Powerful Story![]()
This film reminds me of an Agnes Varda documentary: you start out thinking it’s about one thing, but it turns into quite another.
The story begins when the filmmaker runs an announcement of his marriage to another man in his hometown newspaper in the small, conservative town of Oil City, PA. Not surprisingly there is quite a backlash, especially from the head of a local right-wing fundamentalist group. But instead of spending the next hour on the pros and cons of same-sex marriage, the filmmaker begins to explore what it’s like to be gay or lesbian in a rural community.
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Soon, the film evolves into a completely different set of interrelated stories about a gay youth who is being tormented at the oil City High School and his brave mom, two women who are trying to build a business, and a fundamentalist preacher who has second thoughts about the consequenceses of his religious pronouncements. Each character is wonderful in their own way, but I especially liked the mother, Kathy, who is like a lioness fighting for her cubs.
Despite the serious subject matter, the documentary has plenty of joy and humor. I was fortunate to watch a preview screening in my home town with a supportive audience, and they were alternately crying, laughing and cheering.
This is the best documentary I’ve watched in a long time. The real beauty is that it’s not just for the already enlightened. Nobody with a heart could watch this film and not be deeply moved.
Will be good for promoting discussion and understanding![]()
I was lucky enough to catch an advance preview of this documentary, and sincerely hope it will be seen by as many groups and individuals as possible. As somebody very familiar with a similar community in Pennsylvania, I found the film an important window into small town America’s slowly changing outlook on homosexuality and tolerance. While the filmmakers are open and upfront about their own point of view, they provide a nuanced, compassionate portrait of the residents of Oil City Pennsylvania. A very human story that will serve as a useful tool in promoting discussion and understanding among different people.
Oil City, Pennsylvania![]()
“Out in the Silence”
Oil City, Pennsylvania
Amos Lassen
Occasionally I will see a film that is a total experience and that moves me completely. “Out in the Silence” is such a film. When Joe Wilson married his lover, Dean Hamer, they put a wedding announcement in Joe’s hometown newspaper. Joe had been raised in Oil City, Pennsylvania, a small town that he had left long. When he received a letter from a resident of his hometown, a mother of a gay ten who was being mentally tortured, he decided to go back home and document what he found. The result is this beautiful film, a look at love, hate and understanding in small-town America.
Oil City is a town that had once had industry, a town that the rest of the world has passed by. It was a peaceful, quiet place until Joe Wilson put his wedding announcement in the local paper. Kathy Springer (among many others) saw it and wrote to Joe about how her son CJ was being treated at school simply because he was gay. School authorities looked the other way and Susan having nowhere to turn asked Joe for help. The two soon became fast friends and with Joe’s help, things began to change.
Diane Gramley, the head of the local American Family Association, a very conservative pressure group also saw the announcement but she saw it as an omen that the “homosexual agenda” was coming to town. She used the announcement as an opportunity to get the people of Oil City to say no to same-sex marriage and to homosexuality in general.
Joe Wilson then once again becomes part of his hometown as he looks at the cost of being different in small-town America. He meets a lesbian couple and he helps them renovate an old theater that could change the economy of the town and he becomes friendly with an evangelical pastor and we see how understanding happens. The pastor’s wife so says that we are afraid of what we do not know, something I have always felt and with knowledge comes understanding and in many cases, acceptance.
An interesting aspect of the film to me especially was the use of the American Family Association’s totally erroneous film, “They’re Coming to Your Town” as an example of what gay people can do to a town. It is all harmful and so untrue.
Joe Wilson used his camera in a unique way and this is not just a documentary. The film troubles the viewer as well as comforts him. This is a fascinating and moving look at what it is like to be gay in America and it is to be embraced and applauded. Quite simply, it is beautiful.
Review
Out In the Silence captures the remarkable chain of events that unfold when the announcement of filmmaker Joe Wilson s wedding to another man ignites a firestorm of controversy in the small Pennsylvania hometown he left long ago. Drawn back by a plea for help from the mother of a gay teen being tormented at school, Wilson takes an exhilarating journey through love, hate, and understanding in rural America. The approach to the film is aimed at breaking the mold of the traditional documentary. It is not solely observational. It is not a memoir, and it is not a news piece. As filmmaker, as protagonist, as insider and outsider, Wilson uses the camera to empower, to challenge, to confront, and to look beneath the veneer of the fragile balance of order in his conservative hometown. It is a provocative, entertaining, and deeply personal social issue documentary that dramatically illustrates the challenges of being different in a small town environment and the transformation that is possible when those who have long been constrained by a traditional code of silence summon the courage to break it. –Sundance.org
Review
Filmmaker Joe Wilson travels back to his roots in this autobiographical documentary. Growing up in the small town of Oil City, Pa., Wilson remained closeted, but after college, Peace Corps and settling in Washington, D.C., he came out and wed Dean Hamer (the film’s co-director). After publishing his marriage announcement in Oil City’s newspaper, Joe received a torrent of negative, bigoted letters and one he didn’t expect. Kathy Springer wrote that her 16-year-old son, CJ, had recently come out and was being tortured daily by his classmates. Seeing a community in need, Wilson and Hamer, with camera in hands, headed north to see what they could do. Between interviewing ministers, rebuilding cars, restoring old theaters and battling both the school board and the antagonistic American Family Association (all while making a documentary about it), the newfound friends bring about the change that Oil City needed so badly. A poignant, personal and engrossing story. Karen Price –Philadelphia Citypaper
Review
Growing up as the youngest member of an Irish Catholic family, Joe Wilson realized he was gay when he was a teenager. But in small, conservative Oil City, Pennsylvania, he didn t reveal who he truly was for fear of losing his friends and family. He eventually left Oil City, met his partner, Dean, and got married. But little did he know that his decision to put his wedding announcement in his hometown paper would change his life. The wedding notice resulted in many angry and hateful letters, hardly surprising in a town with billboards about the Bible and a business with a sign out front advertising the upcoming gun raffle. But one letter Joe received really caught his attention. It was from the mother of CJ Bills, a teenager harassed so much because of his sexuality that he had cried for three hours the previous night. Realizing that the hate that still permeated the town was not just directed at same-sex marriage but at the mere existence of openly gay people, Joe and Dean packed their camera and headed back to Oil City. CJ Bills had been a popular High School jock. However, when he defended another gay student from harassment and then came out himself, his so-called friends abandoned him, and he became a target. Teachers and administrators knew of the abuse but did nothing. CJ eventually left school and seldom even left his home to avoid the constant harassment and death threats. Out in the Silence is a must-see, especially for LGBT youth and their parents. In addition to presenting a look at ignorance and homophobia in rural America, the film also examines the challenges of meeting someone in a small town, the use of religion and scare tactics to deny rights to LGBT individuals, and how a community s intolerant attitude can contribute to its downfall. Ultimately, it is reminiscent of Harvey Milk s call to action, the idea that change comes from people being open about who they are, refusing to run or hide. Christopher Roesch –Rochester Image Out









